We tend to what we did yesterday. It's natural. We have paths in our brain. We have our ways of thinking and responding. We have our daily and weekly routines our favorite coffee shop and our favorite stands at the farmer's market. We have our tooth brush and this is all well and good because our patterns comfort us and keep us moving and yet there is a serious problem here. Sometimes we get caught doing things out of habit that are no longer working and yet we continue because it what we do. We are kicking our spurs into the sides of a horse no longer able to move, heck it may have died years ago.
There are places in our life we need to break free. We need to learn new ways of doing things and in that process of learning we will make mistakes and accidentally offend people but this is ok because we are breaking free. We are creating new territory and new paths in our brain and this is what we must do in order to keep really living. We have left our boats burning on the shore and there is now no turning back.