Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.
I have been thinking about this idea of "loving yourself" lately. I think the very idea of this seems to run counter to the way we are conditioned to think. It would seem socially acceptable to talk down who we are and what we are capable of as some version of humility. I don't think it is true humility and I don't think it helps others our ourselves one bit.
My notion is that God is working in us and through us. Kind of like we are all some version of that broken down potentially beautiful Victorian mansion that God has purchased, moved into, and is going about an expensive and painstaking complete restoration, room by room. The best thing we can do is now and then take a look at our self and say "Damn! this is amazing, look what I am becoming. I love it and thanks!"